While those are fake, dream-memories, my conscious self treated me to some pleasant memories during the drive home from the conference. Music, perhaps, is second only to smell in stimulating memory. I'll mention two memory missives I received.
When the opening bars of "Who's Crying Now" by Journey started playing over the radio, I was transported back to high school days. We were gathered at Aaron's house to revel in a few hours of smart talk, chips, shared escapist adventure, and sweaty-palmed dice rolling. A D&D day. These guys weren't my usual playing partners, but we did get together a few times over the course of a month or two for a good dungeon crawl. I don't remember anything about that campaign (except this song playing on the radio), or even whether we completed it before we were no longer able to convene, drawn back into our separate spheres of life that seldom overlapped. Aaron was really the only one of the group that I knew well. He was a year or two behind me in school, but I knew him from band, wrestling, and cross-country. I think he played either trombone or trumpet--you know, the manly, brass instruments, not one of those sissy woodwinds. I played the trumpet--but I wish that I had also learned to play the flute because 1) they were easier to carry, and 2) Jethro Tull.
Thinking of band brings back memories of trumpet and flugelhorn--with only one or two French horns in the band, Mr. Johnson, the band director, had the three lead trumpet players switch to flugelhorns for one season of marching band to create what he called a darker more mellow brass sound. I don't remember the songs we played on those horns, but I remember painstakingly transposing the music, carefully adjusting the notes and writing them on the sheets of music paper in company with David and Lyle (I think), the other trumpeters turned flugelmeisters.
The drum line stood right behind the trumpets in the band room. I could reach behind my chair and flip the snare release on Colleen's drum when she wasn't looking--transforming it from snare to regular drum. Colleen, of course, would be unaware of the change until she started to play, reacting with anger and embarrassment. I'm not sure why she didn't bust a drum stick over my head, but I remain glad that she didn't. I think that I learned rather early in life that best results in playful insults, teasing, and friendly harassment are achieved when the target has a generally pleasant disposition, and can be depended upon not to use one's head as snare drum or one's body as a Stretch Armstrong doll. Of course, the wiser (and less hazardous) path would have been to just be a better person...and that's still an option that I'm considering...at least from time to time.
But I digress...because that's what I do. I do it well. We should all do what we do well. Memory is a crazy crumpled string of the past; following the thread may lead one down its length, or careen one in another direction where the string is crushed against another
As for the other memories. Two songs made me think of a high school sweetheart. She was also in marching and stage bands. Among other things, she played the piano. She frequently played (and sang) Billy Joel's "Piano Man." The hotel where the conference took place had a piano in the lobby. As I walked through the lobby one night after a conference session, a talented guy tickled that tune from the ivories. Another immediate and pleasant trip down the memory tube ensued. The other song came from my own playlist after my preset radio stations disappointed me with nonstop talk and commercials. This particular playlist is heavily laden with songs from ELO and Styx. Maybe the earlier song from the hotel lobby setup this little time travel trip. When "Babe" by Styx started playing, the mental Wayback Machine launched the recollection app which opened at a dance. I was with that same sweetheart, and Wayne was asking me what song I would request for the DJ to play. I thought of two songs at the time. "Babe," and "Don't Bring Me Down." I find it interesting that although I chose the latter, the former is the one that throws the lever on the Wayback Machine for me. Sherman and Mr. Peabody might have some insight into that phenomenon.
Do the things that make you think of someone, make them think of you? I doubt it; at least not usually--but sometimes..maybe.
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